Having Style

From Alban:

I believe we as young women have an opportunity to own this holy interaction, this incarnation, as part of our ministries. From my many conversations with young women clergy on this subject, I have concluded that as a young woman, you will never get away from being looked at. But you have some control over what people will see. We have an opportunity to have a ministry of style. We have an opportunity to show our style, to own our style, to be intentional with our style, and to allow our style to redefine what it means to be a child of God, a Christian, or a minister of Word and Sacrament. God called you, so be yourself.

If you have knowledge, let others light their candles at it.

Margaret Fuller Ossoli (Unitarian, Transcendentalist, author, editor)

(Source: uuquotes)

Beware “Gateway Sexual Activity”!!

Fearless Sexuality Educator on a new Tennessee law preventing teachers from condoning “gateway sexual activity:”

This legislation has FEAR written all over it…”be afraid of going too far, because you can’t control yourself!!”  We should be teaching that everyone has a choice to be in control of themselves…let’s teach responsibility and how to make informed decisions, not ‘don’t do this because it’s dangerous and scary’.

Word.

An open letter to pastors {A non-mom speaks about Mother’s Day}

An important perspective on Mother’s Day observances in church.

Seduced by Allegory

I just finished a semester-long class on the Song of Songs. I came into the class intrigued by and skeptical of allegorical readings of the Song. It seemed a bit irresponsible to read this ancient Hebrew text as an allegory about Christ: that’s so clearly not what the ancient author(s) had in mind.

But I’ve been seduced by this way of reading the text. The idea of God’s love as passionate and erotic is so powerful, particularly for queer people, who have been told (and believed) that God does not love them because of their sexuality. Instead, we could let ourselves use that very experience of sexuality to see how God does love us. Woah! Also, the gender-bending in ancient allegorical readings is ripe to be reclaimed by modern queer commentators (I’m thinking of Origen on the “breasts of the bridegroom” here).

So, hey, liberal Christians, Jews, and UUs: don’t discard the literal reading of the Song. It really is about human sexuality. But let’s also use it to imagine that God’s love really is as irrational, fierce, and unquenchable as the first stirrings of erotic passion.

When a deed is done for Freedom, through the broad earth’s aching breast
Runs a thrill of joy prophetic, trembling on from east to west

James Russell Lowell, “The Present Crisis” (Unitarian, poet, reformer, statesman)

(Source: uuquotes)

curtisfarr:

Franklin Delano Roosevelt at age 2 wearing traditional, American, gender-neutral clothing, shoes, and hairstyle of not-all-that-long-ago.
This post brought to you with love in response to Pastor Sean “beat the gay out of your kids, I mean, um, marriage is for a man and a woman” Harris.
[Click through the picture for a Smithsonian article on a brief history of gender identifiers in the U.S.]

curtisfarr:

Franklin Delano Roosevelt at age 2 wearing traditional, American, gender-neutral clothing, shoes, and hairstyle of not-all-that-long-ago.

This post brought to you with love in response to Pastor Sean “beat the gay out of your kids, I mean, um, marriage is for a man and a woman” Harris.

[Click through the picture for a Smithsonian article on a brief history of gender identifiers in the U.S.]

Love gives itself; it is not bought.

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (Unitarian, poet)

(Source: uuquotes)

Me! Preaching on the Song of Songs at Middle Collegiate Church, April 29, 2012.

(Source: middlechurch.org)

bellswithin:

Salvador Dalí, Return, Return, O Shulamite.  Early 1970s.  Etching with stencil coloring. 26.5” x 20”.  

bellswithin:

Salvador Dalí, Return, Return, O Shulamite.  Early 1970s.  Etching with stencil coloring. 26.5” x 20”.  

Peacebang: it's time for ministers to come out as sexual beings

The body knows great pain, and it can know great pleasure. The giving and receiving of physical pleasure is a spiritual act and experience. Neither the Church nor the government should be in the business of legislating intimacy or its outcomes, which are a private matter of the body, whose inherent dignity Jesus constantly respected.

Amen, sister!

Nothing says “SPRING BREAK 2012!!!” like the complete works of Joseph Priestley…(At least my hair looks nice!)

Nothing says “SPRING BREAK 2012!!!” like the complete works of Joseph Priestley…(At least my hair looks nice!)

[Flash 9 is required to listen to audio.]

This may be the most hilarious thing ever:

flowers-for-hamlet:

The Song of the Song of Songs | Josh Houde

YOUR HAIR.
IS LIKE A FLOCK.
OF GOATS.
DESCENDING FROM GILEADDDDDD

King Solomon knew how to sweet-talk a girl.

  Best dollar I ever spent.

catholicryangosling:

Song of Songs Chapter 1 Verse 9

Another translation of the same verse:

Like my mare driving Pharoh’s chariots wild
I imagine you, my friend.

catholicryangosling:

Song of Songs Chapter 1 Verse 9

Another translation of the same verse:

Like my mare driving Pharoh’s chariots wild

I imagine you, my friend.

Faith is a deep fountain in the soul, below reason, below knowledge, far below sensible experience; and without the exercise of faith we could not live.

James Freeman Clarke, Messages of Faith, Hope, and Love (1905) Boston: Geo. H. Ellis, p.142 (Unitarian, minister, reformer)

(Source: uuquotes)